An American psychologist led the investigation into the most prevalent fantasies among men and women. It’s likely to talk to a lot of people …
This summer promises to be … very caliente! It is proven, a majority of French people are more likely to make love when the sun shines and temperatures rise, 40% of these gentlemen would besides be ready for anything to achieve their fantasies during the season. But what are they, by the way? An American psychologist led the investigation. Dr. Justin Lehmiller interviewed some 4,175 people to find out about the most common unadorned fantasies, which he put together in his book Tell Me What You Want (Tell Me What You Want in VF). The specialist asked questions about the people, places and things that excite the participants and noted some of the strangest answers that include sexual attraction for the belly button, armpits and even cars. But we are reassured, the most recurring fantasies are slightly less atypical … Here are the 7 main!
1) The 3-plane
This is the number one fantasy of 89% of respondents who said that if they dreamed of making love with several people, they would like their dear and tender to participate. Heterosexual men would like this to happen with 2 women while heterosexual women have not expressed a preference for the sex of other “stakeholders”.
2) BDSM practice
Bondage, punishment, sadism, masochism (we do not teach you anything, coquinous!). 65% of those surveyed dream of feeling pain in the form of spankings, bites or contact with hot wax. Women more often feel the desire to be dominated by their partner.
3) Think outside the box
Many people want to get out of their routine and have what they do not have, sort of. Those who usually have sex in bed dream of doing so in a public place when couples are fantasizing about having sex with someone other than their partner.
4) Sex in public
This is one of the most common fantasies among women in particular. The majority of them admit to wanting to make love in a public place where they are likely to notice. The most cited places are the office, the park and the elevator.
5) The free relationship (Friends with Benefits)
This is the fantasy of 79% of men and 62% of women surveyed. They explain that they would like to have sex with another person if their partner allowed them to do so. 58% even confess to dreaming of watching their partner have sex with someone else.
6) To be desired
The majority of men and women want to feel desired, appreciated and even loved during the act. They love when the partner makes them understand that they are “good shots” in bed and irresistible.
7) The homosexual relationship
The respondents were largely heterosexual but this does not prevent them from thinking of having a homosexual relationship. This is the case for 59% of women and 26% of men.