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“Why men marry Bitches” by Sherry Argov !
The bitch is not to be taken literally, says the author in the introduction. The bitch is a woman of character, competent and efficient who has personality. She does not hesitate to leave room for her partner because she has other aspirations than to spend all her time with him. She knows what she is willing to accept or not and the slightest lack of respect, she disappears.
For the author :
Bitch(noun) : A woman who won’t bang her head againt the wall obsessing over someone else’s opinion – be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it’s just one person’s opinion; therefore, it’s of no real importance. She doesn’t try to live up to anyone else’s standards – only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.”
But there are some meanings that stand for the abbreviation “B.I.T.C.H” :
- Babe In Total Control of Herself
- Beautiful Individual that Creates Haters
- Best Individual the Company Hired
- Boys I’m Taking Charge Here
- Brave, Intelligent, Tenacious, Creative, Honest
Here is some rules and principles from Sherry Argov for single and engaged ladies :
CRITERION 1: SHE TRUSTS IN HER
Principle 1: Nothing seduces a man more than a woman proud of who she is. Men want a woman who can manage on her own and does not wonder if the man likes it or not.
Principle 2: Men marry women who do not flatten like area rugs.
They must be strong and combative but not castrating. Physically, you must remain feminine. When you show that you are not afraid of losing your companion, it is he who begins to fear losing you. Personality is what men respect the most.
Principle 3: Men love intelligent, feminine women who leave no one thinking in their place.
Principle 4: Men are more cautious and respectful when they doubt what you think. The less readable you are, the more effort they will make
CRITERION 2: IT IS INTERESTING
Men want 1 woman who has conversation, not 1 woman unable to talk about other things than shoes, makeup and celebrity diets.
Principle 5: To be interesting, ask him intelligent questions about him, his job, his career, what he likes or dislikes. Above all, 1 man wants to be sure that you are not going to make him die of boredom.
Principle 6: Men do not marry perfect women, they marry women they find interesting. Men do not look at queens of beauty, for most men, perfection is synonymous with artifices and artifice synonymous with boredom.
Principle 7: The best way to annoy a man is to be like others.
Men feel that women who care too much about their outward appearance are the ones who are trying to compensate for what they miss on the inside. A fragile woman who needs constant attention is exhausting. For 1 man, the relation will be of quality if it can be in the same room as it, each occupied with its activity.
Principle 8: Men do not want to be the only cause of a woman’s happiness.
That’s why men prefer independent women to fragile women who need reassurance. He is disrespectful and puts him in his place, which makes him take it much more seriously.
Principle 9: Men are attracted to women who do not tolerate the slightest lack of respect.
It’s not about being aggressive but about reacting, even slightly. Quality men do not find it normal for women to go out of their way to please them.
Principle 10: giving everything and immediately installs 1 unbalanced relationship
-Whenever you need the approval of a man and you make too much effort, he will tend to exploit these weaknesses. Men do not want to have absolute mental control over their partner. For men, all that is easy is boring. When there is a challenge, they are stimulated.
Principle 11: When a man finds that you are happy with him but can be happy without him, he will tend to take you more seriously.
-This independence that you manifest, makes you more attractive.
CRITERION 3: IT DOES NOT NEED ME
Principle 12: Men are much more attracted to women who also care about their own pleasure. He wants you to have your own identity.
Principle 13: When you are happy, you are sexy.
For men, indecision is a defect that rivals almost with whining and criticizing everything.
Principle 14: The smallest indecision leaves men thinking that the woman will be unable to make important decisions later.
-Men generally think that women who do not give their opinion are weak or obsessed by the desire to please them.
Principle 15: Do not believe everything that is said about you
Men are intrigued when they meet a woman who is only at his head
CRITERION 4 LET IT RUN UNTIL YOU TAKE IT:
Principle 16: Men like to be curious
When man is not sure to please, it becomes a challenge. If you show that you are afraid of not being up to it, he knows that you are under his influence.
Principle 17: When you understand that you are addicted, you will not have this irresistible aura that could make you crazy to want to marry you.
Principle 18: The challenge is not to sleep with you but to attract and hold your attention
Act as if you did not want to keep it absolutely, the goal being to be reserved.
Principle 19: In order for a man to fall in love and commit himself, he must let his guard down.
Principle 20: You lose all power from the moment you ask “what am I for you?”
The alarm rings and he raises his guard while preparing his escape.
Principle 21: Show your intelligence without chatting right and wrong.
Principle 22: If the man manages to conquer it gradually, he will think that she is in love with what he is.
Principle 23: Never pronounce the word commitment.
The less you talk about it, the more likely you are to get it.
Principle 24: If he fears losing you at any moment, he becomes attached. The idea of engaging must come from him.
Principle 25: nothing is more rewarding for a man than to win a reward for his efforts, patience and perseverance.
When a man does not know what you want, he wants to engage. When you press, he brakes 4 irons.
Principle 26: Men are always hesitant to take what is served on a tray.
Principle 27: The art of seduction is based on a certain mystery.
Relax, get out, have a good time and your partner will come to you. Do not keep him informed of all your actions. If you answer every 2 minutes to all his text messages, the relationship may turn into a monotonous routine.
Principle 28: try to know his habits without revealing yours. Do not let him believe that you are waiting for his phone calls and that your happiness depends on it.
Principle 29: Men love to have the impression of robbing you of the time you could have spent on something else.
If you have expectations, if you are upset when he does not call you, he will do anything to escape you. But if you are happy and in a good mood, he will keep his guard down.
Principle 30: When a woman shows a man that she trusts him, he feels strong and appreciated.
If you do not put yourself at his disposal, he will respect you more.
Principle 31: If you do not like a thing, tell it to him.
You have a life and if he wants 1 place, he will have to integrate into your world.
There is nothing more captivating for a man than a woman who does not pay attention to him.
Principle 32: Men love to know that a small part of you remains inaccessible.
Principle 33: If you are on your 31th when you come home, your mate starts to ask questions.
Principle 34: As soon as you put your life in parentheses, you become less interesting. When your partner wants to see you, be firm from the beginning and show him that you are not in free access. From time to time, just refuse because you have something else to do.
Principle 35: The magic formula is to give and … resume.
If you move constantly, he will chase you to the point of losing his breath.
Principle 36: It is not because a man is sleeping with you that he is interested. If he thinks you’re sexually more experienced than him, he immediately ranks you in short-term relationships and feels emasculated.
Principle 37: When you approach a man you want to marry, he may like you to be prudish.
Men evaluate women according to their pace and their clothes. The most attractive women are those who show the least.
Principle 38: If you wear suggestive clothing, men conclude that you only have that to offer.
Principle 39: If you are looking for a husband, play the modesty card
Because when he is in love with a woman, he wonders how many lovers she had before.
Principle 40: The men who marry you want to be sure that you are only theirs.
Principle 41: If you really like him, he will be happy to be just with you. He secretly wishes to meet with you some form of resistance.
Principle 42: Use moderation and men will think you have a high regard for yourself. Give a good picture of yourself so that your partner can see that he can take you seriously.
Principle 43: Patience not only serves to show you are a class woman but also to give you time to discover the important elements of her personality.
Principle 44: What he tells you in the beginning does not have much to do with how he will treat you. If your partner is not interested in you, he will tell you everything you are dying to hear.
Principle 45: Most men seek a natural woman in bed.
Try not to show that you are watching the clock or the time left before emergencies.
Principle 46: Men do not see the faults of women before they show them.
Do not talk about our ex, do not make comparison even to his advantage, he does not want to imagine you with someone else. To know if you are an easy girl, your partner is not based on your statements but your expertise in the first report.
Principle 47: Women who behave remotely after love are exactly the opposite of what they are used to seeing.
If you do not think about him constantly, he’ll wonder why and it will become an obsession.
Principle 48: If you show yourself distant after love by continuing your normal life, your partner will want to be more involved.
Principle 49: After sex, behave as if you had just met him.
Men respect everything that requires their efforts.
Principle 50: Men are intrigued by everything they do not control. After love, do all the men do, drink a coffee, do your gym in front of the TV and drop on the couch. Do not let your partner go home without warning, never drive as if you were at his disposal. If you do not seek the attention of your partner, he will try to get yours.
Principle 51: When you protect your private life, your partner wonders where you are and this stimulates his imagination.
Your partner wants to give you as much pleasure as you give him. If he feels regularly rejected, he will end up losing interest in you.
Principle 52: A relationship where intercourse is infrequent is a relationship without love, affection, and emotional connection to a man.
Since most women do not have the same sexual needs as men, the frequency of intercourse is often problematic. To avoid the impasse, surprise your partner. If he knows that he will make love twice a week at such a moment in such a position, he will have the impression of following a slimming diet.
Principle 53: Always preserve some mystery
The more unpredictable the reports, the more they count for a man.
Do not fall into the routine. Your partner will feel closer to you if you really love to make love to him and consider him an outstanding lover. If you abuse his ego, he will have no desire to engage.
CRITERION 5: RESIST THE TESTS MADE BY MEN
Men push women to the limit deliberately to observe their reactions.
Principle 54: When you react by showing your emotions, your partner wins on 3 fronts: attention, control and feeling of importance.
If we react disproportionately, it puts us in the category not to take seriously.
Principle 55: If you let yourself be manipulated, a man will think he does not need to engage to keep you.
If we react with cold blood, he will see a sign of inner strength and will have more respect for us that will make him want to invest.
Principle 56: An emotional response is always a reward, even when it is negative.
When a man sees what is ready to accept, he pushes the cap even further. If you do not want to be manipulated, be a darling by your actions and not your words.
Principle 57: men hear what they see
“Sometimes the best way to take a shot is to take a step back. ”
Principle 58: When a man tries to make you jealous, that does not mean he wants to go elsewhere.
If there was an eel under rock he would not talk to you about it. Do not be good public and he will stop his show. If your partner continues to refer to his ex, do the same.
Principle 59: If you do to your partner what he does to you, he will immediately change his behavior.
Men like to be desired. If you let him, he will manipulate you so that you have to beg him to get what you want.
Principle 60: His imagination runs at full speed when he has no news of you.
When your partner finally comes home, if you’re not at home gnawing at your blood it’s no longer worth it.
Principle 61: The more you are serene, the more your partner is destabilized.
Say what you have to say in 2 sentences and drop the subject. Your partner only plans to be involved if he is sure he is dealing with a woman who is not treated lightly.
Principle 62: Speak calmly and your partner will understand that it is important.
If we are overwhelmed by emotions, he does not listen because he tells himself that he leads us by the nose and we will always be there. Set him his account in one sentence to tell him that his behavior is unacceptable. No man wants a girl who says yes to everything.
Principle 63: When your partner sees that you are not emotional, he is baffled and becomes the most vulnerable person in the couple.
Principle 64: If you do not get disassembled, he deduces that he can not handle you.
Principle 65: If it does not destabilize you when they point out one of your faults, it may very well destabilize them.
Men sometimes pretend to be unable to do certain things, so it’s always up to you to stick to it.
Principle 66: Say what you expect from him and show him what to do. Then be enthusiastic and congratulate him.
